Why You Manifest the Wrong Man!

Why You Manifest the Wrong Man!

Manifesting is so much fun. I love the manifesting process, it feels amazing. I also love it when what I want turns up.

I personally think there is something super exciting about manifesting a real live person, rather than a new car or job. MANifesting a man is incredible, something I have done many times, but on my week away recently I realised where I am going wrong.

1. I am totally clear on what I want, but I am out of alignment in terms of believing it is possible. So, I settle for a poor match. You would think I would learn, but no, I have done it so many times now it’s crazy.

2. When my poor match (for want of a better word) comes along I have my love goggles on and I am super excited to be having all this attention, so I go along with it as you never know where it might lead. Maybe I was asking for too much I tell myself. He is quite nice in so many other ways, do those things I really wanted actually matter? You can see I have really got drawn into the excitement of the MANifestation. I am willing to compromise on what I really want.

This is What is Really Happening in Manifesting the Wrong Man

The Universe gets my order of everything I want in my new man. It starts to align everything, it has the perfect man picked out for me, it just needs to make the cosmos align so we can meet.

Meanwhile, so I don’t lose faith in my belief my man will come, the Universe sends me a warm-up man. This man is OK, but not really a match, he is not the main act.

It’s a bit like when you are manifesting a new car. You’ve decided what you want and then you start seeing them everywhere. You even might get the exact model and colour following you home one night, but then it continues past your house. You know it is not your car, so you don’t go chasing after it, but you trust and know yours is coming into your reality soon.

It’s the same with a man, just because one turns up, doesn’t mean he is the one. So be careful not to overlook what you are really looking for and block the main act with the warm- up one!

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Amanda Tooke, also known as “The Angel Mystic” is a Spiritual Teacher and NLP Manifestation Coach, helping stuck, confused women create a spiritually connected and abundant life that they love. Amanda teaches them to use Universal Laws and Energy to unblock their fears and limiting beliefs that have been holding them back. Amanda is also a Natural Healer, Reiki Master, NLP Coach, Hypnotherapist,  Time Line™  Practitioner and an International Best-Selling Author who has featured on television, radio and is a columnist for Fate & Fortune Magazine.  Amanda is the creator of The MAP – Manifesting Abundance Process that she teaches in her membership club. Amanda also runs 5 * Angels in Anglesey Exclusive Spiritual Retreats, Spiritual Bootcamp plus various online programmes and 1:1 work encompassing Angels, Spiritual Development and the Universal Laws.


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