Jealousy and envy are often considered negative and things we taught we should not experience.  However, whilst many of us me included are striving for the best version of ourselves, the purest, kindest, fully connected soul we can be.  In doing all that we can be forgiven forgetting we are also human.

We experience things everyday through media, social media and general life that may well trigger feelings of jealously and envy and we may feel bad about that.  If you are anything like me we are the worst at giving ourselves a hard time and may well give ourselves an even harder time for feel a touch of the green eyed monster.

I recently did and it took me by surprise and led me to question it.  Like anything I am working through I do it by journaling.

I soon came to realise that by experiencing this must mean it was important to me.  Once I stopped giving myself a hard time for feeling it,  I also managed to separate out the two emotions and realised envy it’s a positive thing!

Jealously is wanting that thing someone else has got by taking it from them.  That was not what I was experiencing.  Sure I wanted it, but I wanted them to still have it too.

My understanding of Law of Attraction means there is always enough.  We can’t manifest something to get one over on someone.  When we manifest more money we are not stopping some else from having it.  When we manifest more love again we are not taking someone else’s share.

It might be easy to think of with health as it is exactly the same.  When we manifest better health we don’t take it from someone else or stop them manifesting it too. Everything is energy and there always will be enough.

So if you are feel envy that is showing you that you want something.  It is something you can use to motivate you to align with what it is you want.  Clear the blocks that are standing in your way and make it happen.

Envy might make you initially feel disappointed with your lot, realise you haven’t got what you want.  When you use this is a tool to raise those emotions in you, to show how important it is for you to experience that.  You can be thankful for what could be considered as a negative emotion and defuse it with love, using it as your catalyst to create the life you want, without feeling guilty you experience that envy.

So next time you feel the green eyes monster of envy upon you.  Remember envy it’s a positive thing and ask yourself these questions:

1. What do I want?
2. Why do I want it?
3. Why have I not got it yet?

I would love to hear your thoughts?

Amanda x

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