How to be happy in life – Don’t ask for happiness

It will never happen

We all want to be happy but we should never ask for it as it will never work out. This is not a negative view it is true. It is honestly, not the right thing to do, it won’t get you what you want.

When I am working with my one to one clients and I ask them what it is they want in life, most will answer to be happy! Yawn, yawn the Universe responds. I am fully stocked with happiness and can deliver it to you right now, but I have it in every shape, colour, size, experience imaginable, which variety of happiness would you like?

Happiness is too vague, it can just be a word without a real meaning, no wonder so many ask for it and feel disappointed it doesn’t arrive.

I want you to feel happy, the happiest you have ever felt. I have total confidence you will get it to, but you need to start taking the same language as the Universe understands. You need to expand on your request.

This language you need to communicate in is not your words. Your words can are empty without your feelings. It is your feelings that the language the Universe understands and most importantly what it delivers against.

If you are feeling frustrated and asking for happiness, the message the Universe will deliver against is frustration not happiness.

You also need to break down what happiness is for you, what you will feel like when you have what it is you want. What experiences will bring that feeling in for you? We are all so different one size of happiness certainly does not fit all.

Some want better health, peace, and clarity. Some might want a new loving relationship with an understanding partner. Some might want ease with financial flow, or some might feel they need a whole new life. The list really could be endless and it is also so possible when you allow.

So, whatever you want in your life so you can feel happiness, you have to be really specific. Some say I don’t really know how to be happy in life, but you are more than half way there as you will know what you don’t want.

Here I would say don’t focus on what you don’t want or you will get more of it. Focus on feeling happier right now, blue skies, sunshine, smiles, laughter, water, the good bits we all experience each day but often overlook.

Make a list of everything you want to do, feel and have. If it is a relationship you want write down the qualities you would like, how you want to feel in that new relationship and what things you want to spend time doing. Put your order in with the Universe by doing a vision board or visualizations, do whatever it takes to tap into those feelings that will bring you the happiness you so deserve. Just don’t ask for happiness without expanding on what that means for you, when you do your dreams can really come true and this is how to be happy in life.

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